David Self

Journalist | 1941 - 2008

Veteran columnist who wrote questions for TV’s ‘Sale of the Century’

Veteran journalist David Self, who wrote the questions for TV's Sale of the Century and took part in one of the country's first civil ceremonies for gay couples, died on 14 June, 2008, aged 67.

Mr Self was for many years a columnist on the Cambridgeshire Times and Wisbech Standard, as well as contributing to several national titles.

The openly gay writer and broadcaster died at Peterborough Hospital after battling liver disease and cancer for some time.

In 2005, he and his partner Majid Jawad tied the knot in a civil ceremony in Cambridgeshire just days after the new Civil Partnership Act came into force.

Mr Self was outspoken in his support of the rights of gay couples and on the eve of his civil ceremony wrote about how "attitudes had changed since the day when I could have been imprisoned for what I did in private with a consenting friend."

Once asked how he had come to set the questions on ITV’s long running Sale of the Century, he said it had arisen after he was "propositioned in a gentleman’s lavatory at Anglia Television."

"I had just finished recording eight editions of a very cheap, late night short religious discussion show. The guy at the next stall looked at me sideways and said 'would you like to write me some general knowledge questions?'

"By the time he'd washed his hands, I was a fallen man. In eight years on the game, I set 130 questions a week for 26 weeks of the year."

John Elworthy, editor of the Cambridgeshire Times, said: "David's brief from the paper was to take an off beat look at Fenland life and some of its traditions and idiosyncrasies, which he did supremely well.

"David was one of those larger than life characters whose numbers, regretfully, seem to get fewer as each year passes. I very much mourn his passing."

His Muslim partner Mr Jawad, 47, with whom he shared his Fenland home said he felt "robbed" by his partner’s death.

Instead of presents at their civil partnership ceremony, the couple had asked for gifts of money to help pay for an eye operation for Mr Jawad’s Iraqi mother.

Mr Jawad described Mr Self "as a wonderful, gifted human being. He had such a sense of fun and was passionate about his writing and had a real zest for life. He was also deeply religious and believed very much in the power of prayer. When he first became ill he was determined he would fight it - he was determined to prove the doctors wrong."

Your Memories

Dear David,

It is so sad that I was not able to meet you this last year.
You and your partner "Majid" were kind enough to take interest in the loss of my dear partner "bill" last September.

We also had a "Civil Partnership".

You sound a great man and I know my partner "Bill" would have been so pleased to have known you also.

I have recently met your "Majid" and hopefully we can become good friends.
He is a kind man also and I keep saying what ashame that we could not all have met and enjoyed each others company.
However that is life my friend.
I know "Majid" misses you very much and I can feel the love that he will always have for you.
He speaks very highly of you.

God bless you David and hope that we will all meet oneday.

Love - Richard
Richard West — 07.09.2008
It is with huge sadness that Mary and I learned only today of David's untimely death. Although we had lost contact in the recent past, we shall forever be grateful for the friendship David showed to us both, initially while he was my drama lecturer in Durham and then in helping us to settle into our new life in Suffolk. His interest in our work as Art and Drama teachers and his wise words of help and advice as we started our careers will always be something we remember with huge gratitude. Indeed the last thirty-five years that we have lived and brought up our children in Framlingham can be traced back to David's introduction to us of Framlingham College. Thank you for everything. Tony Lawrence — 19.12.2008
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